A Mother’s Experience as Her Daughter Transitioned from Caron to The Cedar House
When our daughter completed inpatient treatment at Caron, we knew the next step would be critical. We were hopeful, but also realistic about how fragile early recovery can be. Looking back now, transitioning directly to The Cedar House was one of the best decisions our family has ever made.
Why We Felt Comfortable With the Transition
We first heard about The Cedar House from a physician friend and colleague who had both personal and professional experience with the program. He shared how helpful it had been for someone who had completed inpatient treatment, returned home, and then relapsed. That recommendation carried a lot of weight with us.
Our daughter transitioned directly from Caron to The Cedar House. In the past, she had refused sober living, but this time she told us plainly, “I need to stay at Cedar House.” She had heard positive things from a friend who had stayed there and was doing well in recovery. The transition from Caron to Cedar House was seamless, and it truly felt like the best possible next step for all of us.
What Stood Out About the Structure and Support
From the beginning, The Cedar House created an incredible sense of community for our daughter. The early weeks were tightly structured, which she knew she needed. Over time, that structure gradually shifted into more independence, while consistent monitoring and support continued.
The structured meals and group outings were especially meaningful. On Friday evenings, the group would plan dinners at restaurants of their choosing — often in places where alcohol was present. Our daughter learned that she could still enjoy fellowship and have a great time without drinking. That experience was incredibly important for building confidence in real-world situations she would eventually face on her own.
The Impact of Ongoing Recovery Support
The continued recovery support has been wonderful. Our daughter chose to continue with sobriety monitoring and coaching after leaving The Cedar House, and we are absolutely thrilled about that decision. She is currently nine months sober, and we could not be more proud of her.
Knowing that she still has accountability and connection gives us tremendous peace of mind as parents. Recovery does not stop when sober living ends, and it has been comforting to see how much support remains available to her.
Positive Changes We’ve Seen
Today, our daughter lives in her own apartment and has started a great new job, primarily working remotely. Most importantly, she seems genuinely happy. I truly can’t remember the last time I could say that before now.
The Cedar House gave her the opportunity to grow, rebuild confidence, and create a healthy, independent life. We have seen real, lasting changes — not just sobriety, but emotional growth and stability.
A Message to Other Parents
I understand why some parents may feel their child does not need sober living after a first treatment stay. I felt the same way at first. But my daughter knew she needed it, and I regret not trying harder to encourage it sooner.
If this is a second or later attempt at treatment, sober living is incredibly important. The Cedar House has been truly life-changing for our family. It supported our daughter’s recovery and gave my husband and me the gift of peace of mind while watching her become healthy again.
What The Cedar House Has Meant to Our Family
The Cedar House helped our daughter grow into confidence in her own life.
And it gave us, as parents, relief, hope, and the ability to finally breathe again.
We will always be grateful for that.
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